~ Elbert Hubbard
Love me or hate me…
This inspirational breakup quote is so true and serves to explain, rather simply, the concept behind the No Contact Rule. Not only is it important not to have contact with your ex, it is also vital that you are able to let go of any negative feelings. Without this, you are effectively poisoning your mind and body.
Love me or hate me, both are in my favour.
If you love me, I will always be in your heart.
If you hate me, I will always be in your mind.
It’s perfectly natural for self-esteem to take a nose-dive following a breakup. However, you should never permit the actions of another person to make you feel that you are somehow, not a worthwhile individual. If you allow these thoughts to permeate your mind, you are effectively handing control of your life, happiness and self-worth to this person. Never forget that he/she is the one with shortcomings and not you!
Therefore, if you’re feeling low, it is important to remember the following:
Your value doesn’t decrease…
Based on someone’s inability to see your worth.